Saturday, May 7, 2011

Parvin's March Wedding

Parvin and Tasha

Emil and Parvin

The wedding guests arrive before the bride and groom.  The tables are overflowing with food and drink that are served to you throughout the night.  The bride and groom arrive outside and are picked up on a video feed to show them either approaching or entering the wedding hall.  There are speeches and the bride and groom take their seats  by themselves in these royal high backed chairs.  People come around them to congratulate them and get pictures taken with them.  There is traditional dancing and occasionally the bride and groom join but it is a serious affair. 
the wedding party arrives

Danj and Etibar
Tasha and Danj

Bride, groom and us all

The girls dancing

first course

Novrus Bayrami -March Spring Celebrations

samani
Zane making shakarbura


zane and khalil
Zane and Levan

Novrus is a national holiday that takes place in the month of March.  It celebrates spring and comes after a long, gray winter.  There are festivities the month before devoted to the four elements; fire day, wind day, earth day, water day. Tuesdays are hat Tuesdays when kids put a wool cap at your door, ring the buzzer or knock and run away.  You fill the hat with pastries and or sweets.  Kids are hiding around corners and behind cars.  Every Tuesday kids and sometimes adults jump over bonfires and candles are lit for members of the family and in memory of others.   There is a special saying that asks that the heat of the fire cleanses one for the new year.  People jump over 7 times and when the fire burns down the ashes are taken away from the home area with their bad chi (the bad luck and hard times of the year before)  to welcome in the new year with a clean body and spirit. 
Zane and Levan

Zane and Omar
The preparations for Novrus are much like Spring Festival in China. The house is cleaned, debts are paid, things are planted, new clothes are purchased or made.  Wheat (Samani) is planted in little dishes and these become the centerpiece of a table of food that greets visiting friends and family.  The health of the wheat foretells of the health of your crop for the new year.    The table is set with 7 traditional dishes.   The table is filled with nuts (walnuts, hazelnuts, pistachios) and shakarbura (pastry with walnuts and honey) pakhlava (baklava).    Painted or colored eggs are a part of the holiday table and kids take their hard boiled colored eggs and tap them together to see who is strongest.  
Aiden showing his dance moves
Zane in town

this is a moth and looks like a little hummingbird

dinner at home

our bonfire

egg decorating

egg decorating for Novrus

our fire jumping
entrance to Yusif's studio

spices

in town with friends

tash and zane


making a pyramid
yard bonfire
balcony down town


samani

our fire jumping


water!
visit to yusif mirza's studio


yusif's studio

fountain square
There are many holidays throughout this year that I had a hard time understanding why or what was being celebrated.  But Novrus permeates the culture is such a hopeful time or new life, remembering, celebrating and sharing that it warms the spirit.  

Late Winter Moments

Passing a car loaded with apples from Quba
Zane and Levan

We pass this house often on a descent from a hill behind our house.  Always amazed by the attention to detail.  They have since built a wall to close off this section of the yard from the street.
a courtyard a couple blocks away
Danji
High five
friend pile
Nar (Backgammon) in the park on a winter weekend.